Amanda Bynes let all her Instagram followers know she’s ficially engaged to “tha love my life” with a photo her diamond engagement ring. The 33-year-old actress posted a snap her massive rock, which she captioned, “Engaged to tha love my life.”

Next to Amanda’s hand bearing the sparkly jewels, her fiancé’s own gold band can be seen in the photo. Amanda followed this post up with a face reveal her future hubby, whose identity remains a mystery, though according to a source from The Blast, he’s in his 20s. The same source claims that he and Amanda met in AA and have only known each other for a few months.

Amanda’s shocking face tattoo a crooked heart outline can be seen on her cheek in the photo, which she captioned, “Lover.”  It looks like it’s a permanent piece, though, so it’ll be interesting to see her walk down the aisle with the less-than-flattering tat on her wedding day.

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The former child star virtually disappeared from the spotlight after publicly struggling with mental health, drug use, and body image for years. She’s had many infamous breakdown moments, including  However, Amanda appeared to be doing well last year. She graduated from the Fashion Institute Design and Merchandising in Los Angeles in June and gave , in which she declared that she was on a better path now.